Assisted Living Guides

You don’t have to figure this out alone.

What are you trying to figure out?

Pick the one closest to where you are today. Each path is a short reading list, not a quiz, and you can change direction at any point.

Path 1 of 6

I’m wondering if assisted living is needed

Gentle signs that your parent may need more help, how to start the conversation, who to bring in, and options to consider before a move.

  1. Read Is it time? Recognizing when your parent needs more support
  2. Use the Signs it may be time for more support
  3. Then: Care options explained: assisted living, memory care and more

Path 2 of 6

I’m comparing different types of care

A plain-English comparison of assisted living, memory care, independent living, in-home care, adult day programs, nursing homes and respite care.

  1. Read Care options explained: assisted living, memory care and more
  2. Then: Understanding assisted living costs and how families pay

Path 3 of 6

I’m worried about the cost

How assisted living pricing is usually structured, who may help pay, what Medicare does not cover, and the questions to ask every community.

  1. Read Understanding assisted living costs and how families pay
  2. Use the Questions to ask about costs and fees
  3. Then: How to find and shortlist assisted living communities

Path 4 of 6

I’m looking for a community

A calm, step-by-step way to research assisted living near you, check licenses and inspection reports, make first calls, and narrow your list to three to five places.

  1. Read How to find and shortlist assisted living communities
  2. Use the Community shortlist checklist
  3. Then: Touring assisted living communities and comparing your options

Path 5 of 6

I’m preparing for a tour

What to do before, during and after an assisted living tour, what to watch for, which questions to ask staff, and a simple way to compare communities side by side.

  1. Read Touring assisted living communities and comparing your options
  2. Use the Assisted living tour checklist
  3. Then: Preparing your parent for a move to assisted living

Path 6 of 6

We’re getting ready to move

Paperwork to gather, how to downsize and what to bring, what to expect on moving day and in the first weeks, and how to stay involved in your parent's care.

  1. Read Preparing your parent for a move to assisted living
  2. Use the Moving to assisted living checklist

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